Guiding Individuals and Families toward Healing, Growth, and Transformation.

Licensed Therapist | Speaker | Consultant | Clinical Supervisor | CEO, VMS Family Counseling Services

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Hi, I’m Dr. Vicki!

Who is Vicki Sanders?

Vicki Sanders is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Consultant, Clinical Supervisor, and CEO of VMS Family Counseling Services.

Areas of Expertise:

  • Relational Trauma

  • Family Therapy

  • Foster Care and Adoption

  • Substance Use and Mental Health

  • Supporting Children and Adults with Special Needs

  • PTSD

Dr. Vicki Sanders is a licensed therapist, speaker, and consultant with a deep passion for helping individuals heal from relational trauma.

Originally from the Central Valley, she has always been committed to serving the local community. As the CEO of VMS Family Counseling Services, she leads a team of seven therapists, working with diverse clients to provide compassionate, evidence-based care.

Dr. Vicki specializes in working with individuals who have experienced foster care, adoption, or complex relational trauma. She prioritizes evidence-based treatments while tailoring her approach to each client’s unique needs. Grounded in a client-centered philosophy, she ensures individuals understand both the “what” and the “why” of therapy, empowering them to take an active role in their healing journey. Her expertise in relational trauma and healing, foster care and adoption, domestic violence and trauma, substance use, and mental health, and supporting children and adults with special needs has made her a leading speaker in these fields.

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Dr. Vicki is a sought-after speaker on trauma-informed care, relational healing, and mental health. She delivers engaging, evidence-based presentations for professionals, parents, and organizations.

Upcoming Speaker Events

Utah Valley University (UVU) Mental Health Conference 2025
October 24, 2025
Limitless Conference 2025
September 27, 2025
National Adoption Conference 2025
June 26, 2025
Root Center for Advanced Recovery
June 26, 2025

Past Speaking Engagements:

Connecticut Certification Board Annual Conference and Awards Presentation
June 5, 2025
Aspiranet Fresno | Monthly Adoptive Parent Support Group
April 22, 2025
Adoption Network Cleveland Conference March 2025
March 22, 2025
Limitless Conference 2024
October 5, 2024
City Without Orphans Annual Orphan Care Summit 2024
September 10, 2024
Utah Valley University (UVU) Mental Health Conference 2023
October 27, 2023
Fresno County Sheriff’s Department: Wellness Days
October 20, 2023

Why Should You Book Vicki Sanders?

Empowering Individuals & Professionals with Trauma-Informed Insights

Overview:

Relational trauma is often overlooked, yet it profoundly shapes the way people view the world. Early life relationships influence emotional well-being, and addressing these wounds with empathy and expertise is essential for healing.

Key Benefits of Booking Dr. Vicki:

  • Engaging speaker for large and small groups, professionals, educators, and caregivers

  • Expertise in trauma-informed care, adoption, foster care, and relational trauma

  • Solutions-focused approach backed by evidence-based practices

  • Practical, actionable strategies that attendees can implement immediately

Organizations Dr. Vicki Has Worked With:

Healing Starts with Understanding: Insights from Dr. Vicki

What Others Are Saying About Dr. Vicki Sanders

"I truly believe Dr. Victoria Sanders has changed a whole community in the Central Valley of California (and beyond) with her knowledge, experience, and capacity to educate. From parents to professionals, she has been my #1 resource in trauma-informed practices for both children and adults. It is not just my own preference to have her, but the hundreds of people I have had her teach and coach. With Dr. Sanders, you can count on an immediate ask for more information and high reviews!"

Whitney Bunker
Co-Founder of City Without Orphans

“Dr. Sanders has spoken at our disability conference for two years now, and we are having her back this year for our third. She is a wonderful speaker that attendees look forward to hearing from each year.

She has spoken on foster and adoption trauma, as well as medical trauma, and is a wealth of knowledge but also very engaging. Our attendees leave her sessions more empowered and inspired, and we look forward to hearing from her each year.”

Tina Salvadore
Special Needs Ministry Coordinator, North Pointe Church

“I heard Dr. Sanders speak at a disability conference for the first time a couple of years ago. Listening to Dr. Sanders’ insight on foster and adoption trauma was eye-opening and incredibly impactful.

She spoke with such honesty and vulnerability, shedding light on the deep emotional struggles adoptees face while also offering hope for healing. She is one of my favorite speakers, and I always leave her session with a deeper empathy and understanding of foster and adoption trauma.”

Brooke Potter
Special Needs Ministry, North Pointe Church

“I was able to attend your session on ‘Managing Meltdowns.’ I appreciated how you communicated de-escalation and regulation using various methods and showed how they were all communicating the same message.

You clearly communicated practical tools that parents can start using immediately to help regulate themselves and create an environment that gets ahead of a meltdown. As an adoptive parent, I have experienced what a radical difference implementing these principles and practices made in our family.

Thank you for bringing these powerful tools to our families.”

Janelle Poskocil
Adoption Network: Cleveland Program Coordinator

“I was able to attend your session on ‘Managing Meltdowns.’ I appreciated how you communicated de-escalation and regulation using various methods and showed how they were all communicating the same message.

You clearly communicated practical tools that parents can start using immediately to help regulate themselves and create an environment that gets ahead of a meltdown. As an adoptive parent, I have experienced what a radical difference implementing these principles and practices made in our family.

Thank you for bringing these powerful tools to our families.”

Janelle Poskocil

Adoption Network: Cleveland Program Coordinator

“I heard Dr. Sanders speak at a disability conference for the first time a couple of years ago. Listening to Dr. Sanders’ insight on foster and adoption trauma was eye-opening and incredibly impactful.

She spoke with such honesty and vulnerability, shedding light on the deep emotional struggles adoptees face while also offering hope for healing. She is one of my favorite speakers, and I always leave her session with a deeper empathy and understanding of foster and adoption trauma.”

Brooke Potter

Special Needs Ministry, North Pointe Church

“Dr. Sanders has spoken at our disability conference for two years now, and we are having her back this year for our third. She is a wonderful speaker that attendees look forward to hearing from each year.

She has spoken on foster and adoption trauma, as well as medical trauma, and is a wealth of knowledge but also very engaging. Our attendees leave her sessions more empowered and inspired, and we look forward to hearing from her each year.”

Tina Salvadore

Special Needs Ministry Coordinator, North Pointe Church

“Having the privilege of undertaking speaking engagements at numerous events across the country has afforded me the opportunity to be a participant in sessions led by many other professionals. It not only allows me to gain some insight into subjects that lie outside of my expertise, but also to study the speaker’s style of presenting as they engage the audience.Having no prior experience with Dr. Sanders, I attended her session, ‘Domestic Violence and its Impact on the Development of Children Under 2’ in Orem, UT. Her knowledge and passion about the subject were rivaled only by her engaging style and ability to capture the audience’s attention and interest throughout the session.

Although this is often an overlooked skill, Dr. Sanders not only understands how adults learn but employs strategies to facilitate the process. I was so impressed with her session content and presentation skills that I jumped at the opportunity to bring her across the country to be the plenary speaker at my organization’s annual conference. I would recommend Dr. Sanders to anyone interested in her area of expertise.”

Jeffrey Quamme

MS, ICAADC, ICCS, CNE, CNC

I truly believe Dr. Victoria Sanders has changed a whole community in the Central Valley of California (and beyond) with her knowledge, experience, and capacity to educate. From parents to professionals, she has been my #1 resource in trauma-informed practices for both children and adults. It is not just my own preference to have her, but the hundreds of people I have had her teach and coach. With Dr. Sanders, you can count on an immediate ask for more information and high reviews!

Whitney Bunker

Co-Founder of City Without Orphans